Don’t you have an experience of
being forbidden to enter the client’s office because of their order?
“How could you make up for? When
do you understand what I am saying?”
The client was really mad
because their contractor’ staff lacked of understanding.
The staff was asked question
many times about his recognition that the meeting agenda from his clients. He
made reports for several nights. He went to client’s office many times to
apologize and he submitted the letter of apology again and again.
If you are in same situation as
the person, you may blame yourself and lose confidence. Though, you have to
recognize that true reason of such clients blame the person. He doesn’t have to
blame himself.
The cause of someone who treats
you badly or condemns your failure furiously in is not your fault in many
cases.
Real motive and reason of people
blame you.
1 You and the person aren’t
compatible.
2 The person’s boss blamed him/her.
3 The person cannot say
reasonable excuse to his/her boss why he/she chose the contractor.
So he/she wanted to back out of
his/her responsibility why he/she chose your company.
4 The person took too much pride
in himself/herself or had inferiority complex.
So he/she couldn’t accept own
responsibility and he/she tried to make it is your fault.
5 The person had problem with human
relations or under stress of working. So he/she blamed you to work off the stress.
The story I wrote at the
beginning is my experience. When I worked for major telecommunication company,
I had a problem of working. So the person who charged blamed me many times.
“Oh please, finish blaming me quickly”
As expected, I got depressed.
Anyway time goes by.
When people tried to convince
you it is your responsibility by expressing perfect logic, they wanted to rule
you or they had selfish circumstance in the background sometimes.
I received complaint and scold
from clients and they ordered me to remove the person in charge several times.
From these experiences, I realized their true intentions. This is my true
opinion. It will continue
Rainy days never stay. Best
wishes to you! By isso
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