Patient
How
people offend you, you never make complaints. Even they saying something unfair
you never offer counterargument. I guess you also have own philosophy and, be patient
with today’s suffering for tomorrow. But you have rights to enjoy your life and
you don’t need to challenge the limitation of your patient.
That’s
the last straw
“I’ll go
to discipline the guy tomorrow”. I had phone call from my manager on 9 P.M. He ordered
me to buy $200 book immediately. I did almost everything what he wanted.
Finally I had realized he got over himself. Manners know distance. Beat someone
need huge energy and time. So you should check something before you decide to
do.
Check 3
things that whether you go along with the manager even you need to be patient
or not to
1. Your manager takes the initiative to pay taxy fee
and cost of meal.
2. Your manager never calls you on midnight
or weekend except emergency.
3. His favorite phrase is “I couldn’t
make it alone”
I guess
some of you may surprise that I listed only 3 points to check. But from my
experience, it is enough to find out is he/she good manager or not by check these
3 points in most cases. I am confident this my experience apply to your case. Be
generous, consider the others schedule and make someone look good… It seems
easy to do but many of them can’t do so. One person’s fault is another lesson. Don’t
forget manners know distance no matter which you are someone’s superior or
subordinate,
The weak
“Why
there is no transceiver?” When I went out to the place, there was no my name on
the white board. The people on the place told me to “Go back” or asked “Do you
think you have some work to do at here?” So I thought I made a mistake. “Is it
OK I go back to home? What a lucky man I am”. I went back to home and after
that I recognized. “Wait a minute. Did they set me up?” For 3 years, I trusted
my superior and went along with him. But he and the people he concerned set me
up. I didn’t notice at all. From my experience I want you to pay attention
about that. When someone sets you up, it
is hard to perceive and people around you seems it is just like it’s all your
responsibility. Such people are so persistent and they never change their
attitude while they were born. So they never doubt themselves. When you notice,
everybody already seems you it is your fault because they set you up. So you
should separate from them. Even I’m no good at fighting and speaking, I
punished such cowards by several available ways. Anyway I know I have to be
moderate.
That’s
the last straw. “I’ll discipline the guy tomorrow”
Next
morning I shouted my superior. After that 3 people talked to me “I know how you
feel”
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